Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Sidetracked

Train Parking Only All Others Will Be Side Tracked
My family had a laugh last night at my expense.  It seems I had gone to get a band-aid for my husband's blistered feet (football camp) and never came back.  On my way to the cupboard for band-aids, I stopped to put in a load of laundry, then wipe down the kitchen counters and soon his poor feet were the last thing on my mind.  He accused me of having a Homer Simpson moment - like the time Homer knew the guy his sister-in-law was about to marry was a fake but instead of objecting, this is what happened. 

In fact, it's funny because as I put the laundry in (instead of getting band-aids mind you) I remembered that my son had asked me for a book earlier.  Two days earlier. But I got sidetracked.  You might wonder why my husband didn't get his own band-aid, and my son his own book.  Afraid the blame lies with me.  You see we've recently moved and as I'm unpacking I'm easily, well, shall we say, sidetracked.  So the band-aids and books and other things are in random locations that only I know.

So the order of the day will be organization!  I'll put everything in the place it should go, right after I check my email, pay some bills, fold some laundry, do the dishes. . .

Monday, June 28, 2010

Basal Cell Carcinoma

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Wear your sunscreen.  They've been warning us for years.  I never listened.  I'm a quick tanner, inherited it from my dad.  He used to get so dark in the summer that he told me he was an Indian.  I believed him until I was old enough to figure it out (last year).  So imagine how silly I felt holding my husband's hand in the dermatologist's office while they cut off a piece of his face containing basal cell carcinoma.  Me with a golden brown tan, and a doctor with several assistants looking at me thinking "you'd like to be next would ya?"

So I'm turning over a new leaf.  Sunscreen has become part of the morning routine.  Carnation Instant Breakfast, allergy meds, sunscreen.  It's taken some getting used to.  I have to admit I love the way I feel/look with a good tan.  But I'd like the next 40 years of my life to be as cancer-free, not to mention wrinkle-free, as possible.  I figure one of the best ways to negotiate life is to eliminate as many negative variables as possible.  Sunburns are one negative variable I can actually do something about.  Now if only there was a way to eliminate dirty dishes.  

Post Script:
After writing this post I ran into town.  I ran into a friend of mine who has been battling cancer for years now.  Not the cancer that gets cut off, but the cancer that grows from the inside out.  My heart sank as she revealed the cancer is not going away.  I bought her a soda and we drank to tomorrow.  It's my hope/prayer that she'll have many more tomorrows.  It's my hope/prayer that I'll always have the gratitude in my heart that I felt tonight.  Gratitude for good friends and gratitude for the opportunity to negotiate life. 

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Absence of Schedules

So lately just living my life requires negotiation.  I haven't spent a solid day in my house since we moved in June 1st and summer began.  We've been living our life out of suitcases, mostly due to baseball related travel.  I was starting to get a little irritated, thinking I haven't even had my swimsuit on yet and it's going to be the 4th of July next week.  In fact, I'm still not completely un-boxed and don't even know if I could find my swimsuit if I tried. 

Then it hit me, summer is the absence of schedules.  I'm gonna stop looking for the lazy days of summer and start enjoying the fact that we run like the wind all day and fall into bed at night when PM is turning into AM.  I should be glad that I haven't had a regular trip to WalMart for groceries since June 5th.  Soon enough I'll be buying chips and drinks for school lunches and once again we'll be living our scheduled life like clockwork. 

I'll enjoy my days spent soaking up sun at the ballpark and eating snack shack hot dogs for lunch.  Bring on the days scheduled according to game time - not work time.  And here's to you Mr. Portable Toilet Cleaner Outer  - since summer is the absence of regularity - we appreciate your service - even though we throw back ice-cold ROOT-beer with our dogs.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Its A Small World, After All

Here is a list of cities I was in this past Friday:

Cooperstown, New York
Palmyra, New York
Syracuse, New York
Detroit, Michigan
Salt Lake City, Utah
Provo, Utah
Saint George, Utah

Here is a list of people I ran into in those cities:

Cooperstown:  A high school friend I haven't seen in 20 years.
Palmyra:  Former next-door neighbors.
Syracuse:  Baseball teammates
Detroit:  A former co-worker
Salt Lake City:  Former next-door neighbors parents.
Provo:  In-laws.
Saint George:  Three children who missed their parents for eight days.

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

I'm Lovin It

A few things I'm lovin in New York:

My hair.  The humidity has given my curly locks some stupendous ringlets.  I could do a great rendition of "The Good Ship Lollipop."  Darling.

The scenery.  Green, rolling hills are a beautiful sight and they go on forever.  Love the vintage homes.  Unbelieveable. 

Fireflies.  Never seen one before in my life, until yesterday.  Amazing.

The food.  Deli's, Pizzarias, and Bakeries, oh my!  Tasty.

Quality time with my husband.  Precious. 

Afternoons at the ballpark watching my boy play.  Thrilling.   

Opportunity for more of life's negotiations.  Awesome.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Busy

Busy watching baseball games at Cooperstown Dream Park.  Busy eating glazed donuts from Schneider's Bakery as suggested.  Busy eating pizza from New York Pizzaria.  Busy strolling the halls at the Baseball Hall of Fame.  Busy congratulating the Red Dirt Boys on their win.  Busy loving life.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

I Knew You Could

At my son's graduation the valedictorian did not recite a long, boring speech.  Instead, she read a darling children's book that I loved so much I went out and bought it.  If you've got a minute, I'd like to share it with you.  If you're pressed for time, or your visiting teachers are knocking at your door, I totally understand.

I Knew You Could!
I Knew You Could - by Craig Dorfman

I knew you could!  And you knew it, too --
That you'd come out on top after all you've been through.
And from here you'll go farther and see brand-new sights.
You'll face brand-new hills that rise to new heights.

I wish I could show you the stops that you'll visit,
But that isn't my choice to make for you, is it?
Instead, I can tell you some lessons and tales
That I've learned and relearned in my time on the rails.

First of all, you must find your own track,
So you can start right away and not be held back.
But which track is yours?  Well, that all depends
On which way it's going and where it might end.

Different tracks wind around,
over, under, and through,
So pick out the one
that works best for you.
Though the track you start out on
will feel like "the one,"
You might take a few more before you are done.
And now, with your eyes on your new destination,
Start up your wheels and roll out of the station.

On your new trip, you'll make plenty of stops,
In deep river valleys and on high mountaintops.
Some will surprise you and some will be planned,
And you'll roll through each one saying, "I think I can!"

You'll go through tunnels, surrounded by dark,
And you'll wish for a light or even a spark.
You might get scared or a little bit sad,
Wondering if maybe your track has gone bad.

So here's some advice to help ease your doubt;
The track you took in must also go out.
So steady yourself and just keep on going -
Before you know it, some light will be showing.
And then you'll be out, heading to a new place.
You'll be ready for the next tunnel you face.

Sometimes you'll look up and see planes in the sky,
And you'll think to yourself, "I wish I could fly."
The cars on the roads will seem quick and free -
You'll feel stuck on your track and think, "I wish that was me."

But the plane might wish he could get out of the air,
Saying, "I wish I could travel like that train down there."
The cars will watch as you speed right along,
And they'll say to each other,
"Look how fast and how strong!"
Don't worry about not being a car or a plane,
Just enjoy the trip you'll take as a train.

Don't be afraid to toot your own horn,
If you need to be heard or there are people to warn.
Or if being yourself just makes you so proud,
That you want to share it and sing it out loud.

You'll follow your track
through twists and through bends,
And stop at new stops and pick up new friends.
They'll all come aboard with smiles and greetings.
You'll have such great times
with the people you're meeting.

On the days when you're sad and feel you can't go,
Speak up and ask a friend for a tow.
That's what friends do, so don't be afraid.
You'd do the same if your friend needed aid.

You might stop at some stops that you never have toured,
And look for new friends, but they won't come aboard.
So you'll have to head out with a creak and a groan,
Setting out once again on your track, all alone.

Try to remember that the world is so wide,
Full of all kinds of people with their own trains to ride.
Just stay true to yourself as you travel your track,
With no second-guessing and no looking back.

Once you're on the right track, you'll probably say,
"This one is mine - I'm here to stay."
Try to enjoy the track that you choose -
Stop now and then to take in  the views.

If you rush forward, as a general rule,
Before you arrive, you could run out of fuel.
Don't overwork, but save up some strength.
That way, every day, you can travel great lengths.

You'll need all that strength on the days when you're stuck,
Or tired, or sad, or just out of luck.
When your belief in yourself doesn't feel quite so pure,
And your "I think I can" doesn't sound quite so sure.

That's when to push and to strive and to strain,
To show the world you're not a giving-up train.
And you're wise if you know that doing your best
Means that sometimes you should just slow down and rest.

Speeding through your whole trip will bring only sorrow,
So slow down today to be happy tomorrow.

There's more about life that you'll learn as you go,
Because figuring things out on your own helps you grow.
Just trust in yourself, and you'll climb every hill.
Say, "I think I can!" and you know what?
You will!

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Kindness and Love

Our family has a motto:  kindness and love.  Kindness and love are the areas in life I hope my family and I will have the most success in.  It's a work in progress.  I'm constantly encouraged by by the kindness and love of family, friends, acquaintances, and even strangers.  For example:

A sweet someone I do not know sent me her husband's book.  "The Divine Virtues -14 Values To Live By."  Due to time constraints, I've only started to ready it, but I love it and appreciate so very much the thoughtfulness of this gift.

An acquaintance of mine showed up at my house last week as we were moving and offered to bring us dinner.  I didn't know what to say, so I said yes.  Then I cried tears of gratitude.  It was the only home cooked meal we had in a week and it was wonderful.  

A friend showed up during our move with all the seats taken out of their minivan and declared themselves ready to help.  Without them, our move would have lasted several more hours into the night. 

Strangers leave comments on this very blog offering advice, encouragement and prayers.

My husband, children and extended family offer to give of themselves to lighten my load.

These kind acts (and a million more) inspire me to better serve others.  How thankful I am for kindness and love.  

Monday, June 7, 2010

Random

I guess our move scattered my brain along with our belongings.  Here are some random things I'm thinking about:

We leave for Cooperstown, New York this Friday so my boy can play in a baseball tournament.  We will be gone for 10 days.

My husband was just diagnosed with skin cancer.

There are still many a box to unpack lying in random places around the house. 

The only things in my fridge are milk and water. 

What kind of cupcakes will my daughter bring home from the Sweet Tooth Fairy tonight after work?  VaNIElla, I hope.

Will the Celtics beat the Lakers?  Kidding, I'm not thinking about that at all. 

Will I accomplish my list of random things to do today? 

World peace.